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With
the availability of computer and internet, online dating has become one of
the most popular way of getting into romance and relationship.
One of the power tool in the process of interaction with other people in
online dating is anonymity. With anonymity, it is a great advantage since
other people are not fully aware of how an individual looks and what kind
of person they are dealing with.
In addition, most people are able to say what they usually cannot disclose
if done personally. On the other hand, most people have a lot of time
analyzing their dates first before deciding to meet them in person. With
this, they get to know who the person is, his/her personality, or what
does he/she looks like even if it is only through pictures.
On the negative side, some people use this as one way of gaining the other
person’s attention through deceptions and lies. So to be on the cautious
side because of anonymity, below are some tips to identify whether the
other person they are dating online is telling the truth or deceiving
them.
1. When dating online ,one should be wary of those who exaggerate or evade
things that are too obvious not to notice. This indicate that the
other person is trying to hide something from you. Those who do these
kinds of things can be very deceiving .Moreover, people who usually
exaggerate may suggest that he/she is trying to cover something that is
why they make an effort to change the topic at once.
2. Inconsistency: There are cases that some people usually tell
stories of different varieties when dating online. In the course of the
dating online, there are those who would keep on talking about certain
things and when they are asked to tell the same story all over again, some
discrepancies happen. The facts are no longer consistent with those that
were mentioned before. These things would only suggest that the person is,
indeed, deceiving his /her online date.
3. If the other person does not reveal too much of his/her personal
information or anything about him/her, chances are, he/she may be
deceiving his/her online dates. So, for people who do not
reveal much about who they are, it means that they are hiding something.
4. Intuitions: It may be too amusing to believe on intuitions.
Nevertheless, there are cases where people who rely on their intuitions
usually get positive results. Hence, if a person feels that his/her online
date is not telling the truth, then, chances are, the person may not be
telling the truth after all. Experts say that through intuitions,
the individual’s subconscious thought can identify inconsistencies that
are not easily noticed. This can be very helpful especially when somebody
is skilled enough to be consistent on his / her lies for a long time.
5. Another way in online dating, it would be better to chat online with
your date over the web with a webcam. .In this way, one will be able to
see each other facial expression and will be able to better to tell
whether he/she is lying. Here, an individual can detect a person who
is trying to deceive him/her when he/she does not want to use a web cam or
if there are just too many excuses.
The bottom line is that, if the other person has nothing to lie about,
then, everything must be kept simple and straightforward. There should be
no beating around the bush while answering some questions.
In reality, dating online that is free from any deceptions should be
simple and based on truth, no more, no less.
Written by Alan Lim.
To find out more about his online dating service check out:
www.online-dating-service-sg.com
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