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After four
years of reading more than 10,000 profiles of men and women looking for a
partner through online dating services, I've laughed at my fair share of
poorly written introductions. Of those 10,000 online dating service
profiles, no more than a dozen captured my attention enough to make the
first move. I'm sure that you want to get lots of responses to your online
dating service advertisement, or else why would you bother joining a site,
and paying a small fee to meet new people? If that is the case, then make
sure you avoid the following three mistakes at all costs:
Dating Advice Point 1. “I'm the One Your Mother Warned You About." - This
is, from my research anyway, the most overused sentence in an opening line
for online dating service profiles. True, it's the generic choice of some
of the larger sites (such as Lavalife or True) - if your profile is
awaiting approval, this tag line may show up while waiting for the a-okay.
To avoid this, come up with something a bit more original and unique. Bu
what if you aren't sure what that may be? Well, it's not hard to take a
look at your competition in the online dating service field, so why not do
a quick search and see what everyone else is doing? Reading other people's
description of themselves may just get your creative juices flowing. At
the very least, it'll show you what everyone else is saying about
themselves - and what key phrases and words you should therefore avoid in
turn.
Dating Advice Point 2. “I Might Be the One you're Looking For” - This may
be the case. However, by using this combination of words anywhere in your
online dating service profile, you aren't telling me, or any other
potential suitor, anything new. What this line does say to someone
checking you out is that the online dating service profiler didn't do a
lot of thinking about how they wanted to present themselves. Tell people
what gets your eyes twinkling or what REALLY gets you up in the morning -
and don't say it's your alarm clock, either. Now is the time to let your
passions really shine through.
Dating Advice Point 3. Glaring Spelling or Grammatical Mistakes - This tip
may seem childish, or trite - but it's of the utmost importance. While
chatting with someone online, you may have some fast typing or spelling
mistakes that a potential suitor may find annoying. But until you get to
that stage with someone, NO ONE should know that you've got dyslexia, or
just can't spell worth beans.
It shows a lot to a potential suitor while they peruse the online dating
services that someone has taken the time to spell check their document.
Hell, get a friend to read over it for you if need be in case you've
missed something important. But if you cannot take the time to write
something legible, most people perusing the online dating service websites
will assume you won't have time to bother doing other, more important
small tasks. And when you only have a couple of seconds to make that first
impression before someone clicks on another person - every single details
counts.
Written by
Chris Fox. To get even more free dating advice visit:
http://www.DatingAdvice.ws
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